Guiding women & families into deeper self awareness, connection, flow and joy.
Hello you…
If you’ve arrived here - it feels safe to assume you are carrying a heavy load Mama. You’ve been pushing bricks uphill for a while now and are probably at your wits end wondering when things are going to feel just that little bit more easeful?
The Connected Family is a gentle landing pad for women who want to reclaim a sense of ease & joy back into their family life and within themselves.
It is my belief that mother’s are often the back bone for a family’s overall wellbeing. When the mother is dysregulated, overwhelmed and disconnected - often, so too is the family unit.
Even when we are surrounded by support, if our own life force and self awareness is in tethers then it can feel like a helpless battle at times. How can we really thrive in our mothering when we aren’t thriving within ourselves?
At The Connected Family, finding calm in the chaos (and helping dial the chaos down!) is the goal. To help families release tension, the help parents understand their children on a deeper level and find what makes you click as a family and what is possibly manifesting as challenges or blockages.
If this sounds like you - then hang around a little & let’s see if we can reignite your spark!
Are you raising spirited children and mainstream clinical approaches don’t feel in alignment?
Do you want to understand yourself and your family on a deeper level? From decision making styles, communication styles, preferred environments and energy types?
Do you want to restore your own sense of self and find spaciousness for joy as a woman and mother again?
Yes, I really do! How do we do it?
If you are after a quick fix, then I am sorry but you won’t find one here (or anywhere!)
Healing the soul, breaking patterns and fostering a deeper sense of self awareness and family connection is a journey. A journey that I am here to guide you on.
My guidance is here to shine a light on where you may be experiencing stagnancy in your physical & energetic body. Where you have potential to tap into more energy and how to interact with and respond to the world around you with more ease & alignment.
Through human design & energy healing modalities like womb hara massage and sound healing we will begin your journey.
We will create a home that feels less tense & chaotic.
We will foster calmer & considered family interactions.
We will minimise emotional outbursts through deeply understanding one another.
We will breathe joy & flow back into the home by meeting everyone’s needs as per their design.
We will support your spirited child to thrive with everything that makes them unique. We are not here to dim their lights or change them.
Okay that all sounds wonderful, but tell me about yourself…
Hi, I’m Kirsty.
mother of two. wife. rose lover. aquarius. 3/5 manifesting generator
As a 3/5 mani-gen and Aquarian, I am here to learn through my own trial & error and then show others solutions to the problems or hurdles I have lived through. My humanitarian spirit beckons me to challenge the status quo for the greater good of society.
It was a slow burn reaching the clarity that helping other women in their mothering and sense of self was going to be my story.
I have spent the past 4 years in my former business - Two Seasons Doula as a birth & postpartum doula.
Witnessing women traverse the growth, the reckoning and the power that is pregnancy, birth and transitioning into motherhood has been nothing short of profound. I became a doula in the wake of my own birth trauma, I wanted to understand why so many women were arising from their births feeling powerless, defeated and disconnected from their baby and/or their mothering. When I work with women in this space, their is close attention and reverence given to a woman’s birth experience.
Raising my Son has been the biggest marathon of joy, lessons and heartache in my life. He has and continues to be my greatest teacher in life, and is the reason I am where I am. Learning his human design, it became clear he was always going to march to the beat of his own drum and express himself wildly and boldly. Yet I also acknowledge the role I played in his early years development, as he had a front row seat at the Kirsty show on the daily, a show that exhibited rage, anxiety, mood swings and meltdowns.
He quickly began to mirror my behaviour and in my quest to “fix him” it felt like a kick in the guts when I realised it was me that needed healing - not him.
In another pathway, he would be labelled ADD and likely prescribed medication. I had seen other friends traverse this path with their little people and no pathway looked easy or appealing - so I returned to my values of living and healing holistically. I knew that if I could create these behaviours through my own actions and responses then I could also repair and heal these behaviours.
So with that I set out to confront my demons so to speak - I invested in my healing journey and relentlessly worked through traumas, inner narratives and wounds. 7 years in and I am so damn proud of the progress we’ve made individually and as a family. It isn’t easy healing from the inside out but my gosh it’s worth it!
I want to guide women to do the same. Women who want to take their families wellbeing into their own hands and do the work. The women who have maybe tried the clinical pathway and felt it was like a game of whack-a-mole, creating more problems than it cured.
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